In or Out…
I am a novice when it comes to relationships. But, I often wonder what love is all about. Are we just in love with the idea of love ? I have seen people fall in love or should I say ‘dive’ into it. I hear people ask the question – how one can fall in love without knowing the person first. Well, it isn’t ‘falling in’ if you measure up the person first and then decide if you are in love or not. Then, you’re just matching compatibilities. There are friends who find their soul mates in one another and start a relationship. Again, that is more like discovering each other. So, can people actually fall in love over time ? I don’t think so. I feel that two people can discover that they enjoy each others’ company so much that they’d like to live together forever.
Falling in love for me means when you see the person for the very first time, your eyes meet for an instant and you know everything about that person. It’s like you’ve spent an entire lifetime with that person. I know it’s a cliche but it happens. I don’t think people take time to fall in love, they take time to fall out of love.
It’s like this – You just can’t choose the person to fall in love with. It’ll happen even before you know it. That’s why they call it ‘Falling in’…
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“In or Out…”