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What is wrong with you?

March 21st 2006 in Random

Divya’s last post was a refresher. Now back to some serious stuff.

I recently read this post The End of Innocence on Harry’s blog & it sure did enrage me.

I have seen many so-called “MMS SCANDALS” break… Mallika Sherawat, Sania Mirza, Preity Zinta and so on. The list is endless. But these were all fake & hardly dented the reputation of the concerned people.

The injury occurs when this sort of stuff happens to normal people, someone from amongst us, one of our friends, a member of our family… anyone. As has been said by the others, it hardly affects the guys who make & “break” (circulate) these short porn clips involving their friends, girlfriends, neighbours… etc. The whole blame is put on the girl. Her life is ruined.

Our society has double standards. Just last week, when I was preparing for my Physical Education exam, there was this paragraph in our books :

…society has double standards. Having Pre-Marital sex is considered a sign of a complete man. But if a woman does the same, she is considered characterless. We are not advocating Pre-Marital sex…

We were all laughing & making fun of our teacher who has written the book. But if you analyze it closely, the man is so very right. We are all a bunch of hypocrites. Yes – you, me & everybody. We all might try & present ourselves to be in favour of women equality & all but from the inside we are no different from those BAJANG DAL activists. Why? Because when such scandals break, no one actually sympathises with the girl. Everyone’s first reaction is that the girl must’ve been a slut.

This is totally insane! Total nonsense. On one hand we call ourselves educated & modern but we are worse than those so-called backward people living in the villages. This thing is not just prevalent in India but the whole Indian Sub-Continent. India is just better than the rest.

We can keep saying that the West is destroying our culture. But the fact is the West has nothing to do with what is going on. I agree the world is a global village. Actions of the people of one nation affect the citizens of other nations. But if we ape the west, make such clips & circulate them, then why can’t we copy them and actually make the country more safe for women? They have their share of Rapes & Molestations but justice is given to women. What does our Justice System do… nothing! Absolutely nothing.

Take the case of the woman who was raped by her father-in-law. Did she get justice? No. And what about the Delhi University student who was raped. These cases had the backing of the media, still they got no justice. Imagine the plight of the normal woman. She can just contemplate of committing suicide in such situations. There is no way out for her. Neither the society nor the state will help her.

What is wrong with you boys? What pleasure do you queers derive from such actions? I’m not saying the girls are not responsible but the fact that they suffer more is what bothers me. Why not give the guy a good spanking too?

Girls, be firm! Please don’t give your boyfriend the consent to shoot your private moments. Even husbands leak such clips of their wives… you can’t expect your boyfriends to be truly faithful & loyal. Stay alert & stay out of trouble.

What is wrong with our society?

We call ourselves the I.T. superpower, the next superpower of the world. Dream on!!


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    Rahul

    Eevn Google considers the post serious… its showing no ads… just Public Service Ads.


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    divya

    even i read dat n ’twas v.discouraging .
    baat to ghum-fir ke vahi aati hain.

    girl is raped or her intimate moments r publicised.

    if d 1st case b so, media nlitens d whole thing b4 any justice.

    d girl starts getting d society n d ppl else dan her family against her, but in india sumtimes d family n norms of society also ditch her.

    justice z delayed 4 either no evidence or d crap bribery from dat boyz case shows up.

    2 dayz l8r, media also leaves d girl coz derez no spice left.

    ladke ka ata-pata nahi hai.

    ab, d girl n her frustration vich gen. ends vid suicide.

    so, huz 2 blame? dat boy 4 bng such a *******, d girl 4 bng so gullible, d media or d justice sys. ?


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    harry

    i’ll again like to say that the one distributing is more cheaper than the one who created.


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    Rahul

    I agree with you Harry… “the one” who distributes it is the one to b blamed the most. This person could be the guy or his friends or any other stranger.

    But all I want to say is that sex is not bad… no its not… but recording is n then distributing it…. well !


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    harry

    sex is never bad! i mean we’ve crossed that ‘sex!haaaaaw!’ kindaa attitude now! sex is a part of a relationship n there’s nothing wrong wid it at all, just that it’s supposed to be a special private moment amongst two individuals….thats all!


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    Niharika

    cheers rahul!! dis is absolutely true.. i see it in my own house wid my grandparents also.. not only sex..but a girl must learn how to cook n handle d house, she must not raise her voice, she must not question any order.. it sux!! n ya harry, sex is not cheap!! it is an act of love and emotion. n our media warps every1s views about it!


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